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Monday, March 29, 2010

Was wondering how transient relationships are... what are they meant for... how far could one carry them ... relating to action-reaction principle..people forget the basic truth that it is not always taking in.. it is giving back too .... But there is no reckoning back once we hit a dead end ... It is always good to call off... whatever it is .... friendship -- commitments ... once people start taking "the other one" for-granted ....
The best example would be that of friends "out of need" ... whatever form d "need" manifests itself in .. help in studies.... a jovial company .. being with a "center of attraction" .... to vent out feelings to one who has all d patience to listen .... a company in loneliness .. they all are relationships taking shape out of d misery of people involved ...
I feel lost ... I cannot imagine how a true n beautiful relationship should be ... :) i could relate it somehow to that of a mother n a child.... perception differs !!

4 comments:

insearchofviswanath said...

It's upto the two parites, how far they wants to walk together. Even in case of monther and child too. But generally the relations we daily makes are transient but once in a life time we came across 2 or 3 friends, which we can afford them for a lifetime. Ofcourse it's upto us.

SHUBHA said...

:) Yeah that is true!!!

jithendrian said...

how transient relationships
Life itself is transient !!
how far could one carry them
As far both sides are ok
relating to action-reaction principle
Everything follows newtons-3rd law :) Even mother-child relationship.. If you do some mistake your mother can tolerate but if you do some blunder she will not hesitate to throw you out
Giving and Taking
As long as some one is giving people are ready to take .. In this process some gains , some looses , both can gain and both can loose .. the giver should not loose in the end !!
whatever form d "need" manifests itself in .. help in studies.... a jovial company .. being with a "center of attraction" .... to vent out feelings to one who has all d patience to listen .... a company in loneliness .. they all are relationships taking shape out of d misery of people involved ...
It depends on the friends you make... do not think all are like this ... for them also you could be like this kind !!
I cannot imagine how a true n beautiful relationship should be
Unimaginable friendship is the true friendship so dont strain yourself to imagine
i could relate it somehow to that of a mother n a child....
Mother loves her child because it is her product ... If you are a manufacturer of a product its your responsible to take care .. thats what our mothers are doing
http://jithendrian.blogspot.com/2009/09/siblings-must-be-more-respected-than.html

SHUBHA said...

@jithendrain
Now that's called critical review :)